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Ağzı Olan Konuşuyor

Ağzı Olan Konuşuyor

Haydar Mermer

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<p style="margin-left:0cm; margin-right:0cm; text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="background-color:white"><span style="font-family:Calibri,&quot;sans-serif&quot;"><span style="font-size:12.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;"><span style="color:#050505">Hani eski bir reklam vardı ya;</span></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-left:0cm; margin-right:0cm; text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="background-color:white"><span style="font-family:Calibri,&quot;sans-serif&quot;"><span style="font-size:12.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;"><span style="color:#050505">&#39;&#39;Ağzı olan konuşuyor&#39;&#39; diye.</span></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-left:0cm; margin-right:0cm; text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="background-color:white"><span style="font-family:Calibri,&quot;sans-serif&quot;"><span style="font-size:12.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;"><span style="color:#050505">Aynen &ouml;yle.</span></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-left:0cm; margin-right:0cm; text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="background-color:white"><span style="font-family:Calibri,&quot;sans-serif&quot;"><span style="font-size:12.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;"><span style="color:#050505">Ağzını her a&ccedil;an, kadına şiddetten başlayıp, cinayetten &ccedil;ıkıyor. </span></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-left:0cm; margin-right:0cm; text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="background-color:white"><span style="font-family:Calibri,&quot;sans-serif&quot;"><span style="font-size:12.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;"><span style="color:#050505">&Uuml;st&uuml;ne basa basa s&ouml;yleyelim...</span></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-left:0cm; margin-right:0cm; text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="background-color:white"><span style="font-family:Calibri,&quot;sans-serif&quot;"><span style="font-size:12.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;"><span style="color:#050505">Hem de aptala anlatır gibi...</span></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-left:0cm; margin-right:0cm; text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="background-color:white"><span style="font-family:Calibri,&quot;sans-serif&quot;"><span style="font-size:12.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;"><span style="color:#050505">Bu &uuml;lkede &#39;&#39;Kadın cinayeti&#39;&#39; yoktur.&nbsp; </span></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-left:0cm; margin-right:0cm; text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="background-color:white"><span style="font-family:Calibri,&quot;sans-serif&quot;"><span style="font-size:12.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;"><span style="color:#050505">Bu &uuml;lkede &#39;&#39;Kadına şiddet&#39;&#39; de yoktur. </span></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-left:0cm; margin-right:0cm; text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="background-color:white"><span style="font-family:Calibri,&quot;sans-serif&quot;"><span style="font-size:12.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;"><span style="color:#050505">Evet, maalesef cinayete kurban giden ve şiddet g&ouml;ren kadınlar vardır.</span></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-left:0cm; margin-right:0cm; text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="background-color:white"><span style="font-family:Calibri,&quot;sans-serif&quot;"><span style="font-size:12.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;"><span style="color:#050505">Ama bunun adı &#39;&#39;kadın cinayeti&#39;&#39; ya da &#39;&#39;kadına şiddet&#39;&#39; değildir. </span></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-left:0cm; margin-right:0cm; text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="background-color:white"><span style="font-family:Calibri,&quot;sans-serif&quot;"><span style="font-size:12.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;"><span style="color:#050505">Zira </span></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-left:0cm; margin-right:0cm; text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="background-color:white"><span style="font-family:Calibri,&quot;sans-serif&quot;"><span style="font-size:12.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;"><span style="color:#050505">Hi&ccedil; kimseye sırf kadın diye şiddet uygulanmamakta, hi&ccedil; kimse sırf cinsiyeti sebebiyle &ouml;ld&uuml;r&uuml;lmemektedir. </span></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-left:0cm; margin-right:0cm; text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="background-color:white"><span style="font-family:Calibri,&quot;sans-serif&quot;"><span style="font-size:12.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;"><span style="color:#050505">Eğer &ouml;yle olsaydı, erkekler sokakta rastladıkları her kadını &ccedil;eker &ccedil;eker vururlardı...</span></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-left:0cm; margin-right:0cm; text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="background-color:white"><span style="font-family:Calibri,&quot;sans-serif&quot;"><span style="font-size:12.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;"><span style="color:#050505">Oysa</span></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-left:0cm; margin-right:0cm; text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="background-color:white"><span style="font-family:Calibri,&quot;sans-serif&quot;"><span style="font-size:12.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;"><span style="color:#050505">&Ouml;ld&uuml;r&uuml;len ve şiddete maruz kalan kadınların kahir ekseriyeti; ihtilaflı olduğu yakınları tarafından &ouml;ld&uuml;r&uuml;lmektedir.</span></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-left:0cm; margin-right:0cm; text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="background-color:white"><span style="font-family:Calibri,&quot;sans-serif&quot;"><span style="font-size:12.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;"><span style="color:#050505">Akraba kavgasına kurban giden erkek sayısı, belki kadınların en az on katıdır ama nedense kimsenin dikkatini &ccedil;ekmez.</span></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-left:0cm; margin-right:0cm; text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="background-color:white"><span style="font-family:Calibri,&quot;sans-serif&quot;"><span style="font-size:12.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;"><span style="color:#050505">Şiddet bu toplumun bir kısmının amansız bir hastalığıdır.</span></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-left:0cm; margin-right:0cm; text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="background-color:white"><span style="font-family:Calibri,&quot;sans-serif&quot;"><span style="font-size:12.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;"><span style="color:#050505">Koca karısına, anne &ccedil;ocuğuna, &ouml;ğretmen &ouml;ğrencisine, komutan askerine, patron iş&ccedil;isine...</span></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-left:0cm; margin-right:0cm; text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="background-color:white"><span style="font-family:Calibri,&quot;sans-serif&quot;"><span style="font-size:12.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;"><span style="color:#050505">Bunların i&ccedil;inden cımbızlayıp, sadece kadınların maruz kaldığı şiddeti ağızlarına sakız edenler, bu &uuml;lkeye iyilik etmemekte,&nbsp; bu asil milletin karakterine ve kaderine iftira etmektedirler.</span></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-left:0cm; margin-right:0cm; text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="background-color:white"><span style="font-family:Calibri,&quot;sans-serif&quot;"><span style="font-size:12.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;"><span style="color:#050505">Zira </span></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-left:0cm; margin-right:0cm; text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="background-color:white"><span style="font-family:Calibri,&quot;sans-serif&quot;"><span style="font-size:12.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;"><span style="color:#050505">Bizim mafyamız bile, hesaplaşmalarına kadını kızı karıştırmaz.</span></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-left:0cm; margin-right:0cm; text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="background-color:white"><span style="font-family:Calibri,&quot;sans-serif&quot;"><span style="font-size:12.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;"><span style="color:#050505">Bizde ortalama bir erkek, hasmının bile karısına kızına el kaldırmaz...</span></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-left:0cm; margin-right:0cm; text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="background-color:white"><span style="font-family:Calibri,&quot;sans-serif&quot;"><span style="font-size:12.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;"><span style="color:#050505">Şimdilerde, her kafadan &ccedil;ıkan sese d&ouml;nen bu b&ouml;l&uuml;c&uuml; mefhumları icat eden ve mahsurunu bile bile şehvetle kullananlar; &uuml;mit ederim ki, dilleriniz şişsin de ağızlarınıza sığmasın...</span></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-left:0cm; margin-right:0cm; text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="background-color:white"><span style="font-family:Calibri,&quot;sans-serif&quot;"><span style="font-size:12.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;"><span style="color:#050505">Bir an &ouml;nce aklı selim h&acirc;kim olmalı;</span></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="margin-left:0cm; margin-right:0cm; text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="background-color:white"><span style="font-family:Calibri,&quot;sans-serif&quot;"><span style="font-size:12.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;"><span style="color:#050505">Yoksa koskoca &uuml;lke tımarhaneye d&ouml;nmek &uuml;zere...</span></span></span></span></span></span></p>
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